“Go ahead, make my day.”

Clint Eastwood certainly made my day this past week when he announced his support for marriage equality in the United States.

Never in my wildest dreams did I think I would be reporting the milestones the Gay and Lesbian community are celebrating this week. In addition to the State of Illinois being one step away from being the first Midwestern State to approve marriage equality through the legislature, a group of over 130 prominent Republicans, including Clint Eastwood, have filed a brief with the Supreme Court strongly supporting our freedom to marry the person we love. In addition, the President of the United States, through the Justice Department, has also filed two briefs in support of marriage equality.

This is a watershed moment for the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender (LGBT) community. Our cause for justice and equality is no longer a single-party issue or a radical idea from the nation’s liberal coasts, rather, it is now a mainstream social and political issue that crosses both parties and is emerging in the nation’s heartland. When Iowa approved marriage equality through the courts in 2009, the backlash was swift and punitive. Conservative Republicans came out in droves and recalled three of the justices on the Iowa Supreme Court who supported equality. Just 3 years later in 2012, Minnesotans fought back a referendum that would enshrine discrimination in their state constitution by banning marriage equality and voters in three states approved gay marriage at the ballot box.

What is going on around here?

The answer can be found in several social and political movements of this century. During the past few years, the younger generation has realized that the quest for marriage equality and full equality for LGBT Americans is the civil rights battle of their generation. Younger Republicans like Margaret Hoover (granddaughter of President Hoover) are pushing their party to lay down old ideas and reject the dogmatic approach of the right wing of their party. Moderate Republicans like former New Jersey Governor Christine Todd Whitman are coming out to challenge the antiquated ideas of the past. Even Dick Cheney, who no one could ever accuse of being a “liberal”, has come out in support of gay marriage. This awakening was no doubt a result of the loving and committed marriage of his daughter Mary Cheney to her wife Heather Poe as they raise their beautiful children together.

The recent presidential election was a wakeup call for the Republican Party. A pro-gay marriage President was reelected in an Electoral College landslide. Republicans lost seats in both the Senate and House of Representatives. Republican Party identification among the electorate is at one of its lowest points in history. Anti-immigration rhetoric and homophobic vitriol are being replaced by calls for pathways to citizenship for immigrants and a road to full citizenship for gays and lesbians.
The Democratic Party has been a champion for the rights of LGBT Americans. Their steadfast support in the halls of Congress, in State Houses and in the White House has given Democrats a huge margin of support from gays and lesbians. According to exit polls, 76% of LGBT Americans voted for President Obama, one of the highest levels of support of any voting bloc in the nation. In an election that was so close in so many battleground states, the gay vote made the difference in the re-election of our president.

One of the dangers of relying on support from one party is that LGBT voters may be taken for granted so it is imperative that we widen our support to include Republicans who will take up our cause. This is hard to do in today’s primary system where moderate Republicans are outspent and derailed by extreme right-wing elements and the Tea Party. Witness what is happening in so many states where long-term moderate Republicans are being voted out of office replaced with activist religious conservatives. These folks have a narrow view of the world that does not include a world where two men or two women can marry.

The LGBT community must recognize that in order to win our freedom we must not only rely on our strong Democratic support but we must also cultivate relationships across the aisle with Republicans who are willing to take up our cause. Furthermore, we must hold Democrats accountable to their promises and not allow them to take us for granted.

We are in an amazing time in America for LGBT Americans. A decade ago I could have never fathomed that I could marry the man I loved in this country. In fact, Harry and I had to go to Canada 10 years ago to get married as no State in the union would marry us.

Though we are not there yet, there is truly hope for a better tomorrow. After all, we only need one of those five conservative Supreme Court justices to embrace true conservative principles- individual liberty, less government in our lives and the promise of freedom enshrined in our Constitution.

And who knows, maybe one or two of them will listen to Clint Eastwood and truly “make my day.”

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Adding Sound To Your Outdoor Living Space

by Guest Blogger on February 15, 2013

Outdoor living spaces have become popular all over the country, not just in warm climates — but in Key West, indoor outdoor living defines the lifestyle.  It doesn’t just add add another family room to your home, where you can relax while you read a book in the fresh air, put on some new age music and strike a yoga pose, or host a party – it becomes your main living space.

Of course when planning the layout of your outdoor space, you should spend some time brainstorming all it’s possible uses so that you don’t omit a detail you’ll regret later.  Some friends of ours share a vacation home with two other couples.  The house itself is lovely, but the outdoor space is extraordinary.  It is so well laid out, and inviting that most who spend time there prefer to be out on the patio and poolside.  Imagine our shock when we visited most recently and saw that one of them had slapped up a big screen TV in a corner.  He had chosen a place where it would be protected from the elements but that appeared to be the only thought put into the installation.  Everyone agreed that it was awful and worried that it was going to be a point of contention if the guy who put it up insisted on keeping it.  Clearly this is one of the hazards of sharing a home, especially a three quarter of a million dollar vacation home.  The problem could have easily been avoided if the group had taken the time to discuss a professional installation.

Dance To The Music

While some people may be content to plug in a portable speaker for their iPhone when entertaining in the backyard, there are more permanent alternatives that will bring life to your outdoor space.  A properly installed outdoor entertainment system gives you the ability to fine tune the sound and create just the right atmosphere, whether you are hosting a Superbowl party, an intimate dinner, or roasting s’mores on your fire pit.  Just like indoor installations, the placement of speakers is critical to enabling you to experience the music without compromising your ability to have conversations.  Anyone who has a proper home theatre system knows it’s not just a matter of volume up or down.

Outdoor Speakers

Carefully placed outdoor speakers allow you to enjoy the sounds without blasting the volume.  Consult a sound specialist to determine which type of speakers to get and where best to install them.  Outdoor electronics should be wired by a professional for safety reasons.  If you already have a home theatre system in your home, you can wire your outdoor area as Zone 2, so that it can be controlled by your existing receiver and remote control.

You can buy speakers that are designed to look like common elements of outdoor decor, like planters, rocks, or tree stumps, and I’m not talking about the ones you find in your in-flight SkyMall magazine. Your speakers and subwoofers can be strategically placed around the yard to create a similar surround sound system to the one you have in your living room. The speakers for the lanai of the home below are recessed into the ceiling and match the interior speakers. (More photos and details this home for sale at 517 Grinnell Street.)

speakers in the ceiling of the lanai.

Speakers are recessed into the ceiling of the lanai.

As Seen On

If you are going to add a television to your outdoor area you should consider LCD rather than plasma.  The LCD displays handle glare better.  You can buy expensive televisions that are made for outdoor applications, or you can set a standard one up under a shelter or gazebo.  If you will be using it infrequently, or you close your home for the summer, you may want to install it so that it can be easily taken indoors when not in use.

Steven Peters works with the team at Hooked Up Installs.  He enjoys writing about entertainment and activities for children.

 

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7 Ways to Add Curb Appeal to Your Home

February 13, 2013

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Farmhouse Style Sinks Lend Authentic Feel to Key West Kitchen Renovations

January 30, 2013

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Real Estate Sales in Key West Continue to Show Solid Growth

January 25, 2013

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Real Estate: Tips For A Quick Sale In A Tough Market

January 21, 2013

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5 Essential Maintenance Tips for a Sparkling Swimming Pool

January 10, 2013

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Gay and Lesbian Americans Celebrate New Year Filled with Equality, Anticipation

December 31, 2012

When the clock strikes 12 on New Year’s Eve, lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) Americans will greet a new year filled with celebration of victories, hope for a better tomorrow and anticipation of a ruling from the Supreme Court that will change the face of equality for generations. Benjamin Franklin said that the greatness [...]

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Key West’s Salty, Humid Air + Metal = Rust

December 19, 2012

Protecting Metal Features on Old Town Homes From Rust and Corrosion Rust, otherwise known as iron oxide, is formed by the interaction of iron and oxygen molecules in the presence of moisture. Given a long enough time and exposure to the elements, any iron object will eventually convert itself completely to rust. Steel, being comprised [...]

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